Oct 18 2009

Finding Your Next Right Answer

Last week I attended a workshop, maybe it was a seminar, or a retreat, I’ll stick with workshop, called “Finding Your Next Right Answer.”

In the materials, they show the following under “who should attend”:

Those seeking to deepen their own sense of possibility and creativity.

In the “Workshop Details” section, the following:

The workshop agenda is designed around exploration  and experience of the different philosophies and techniques to develop your creative thinking, shift your perspective, reconnect to your intuition and your essential self, develop the skills of appreciative inquiry and rekindle your sense of passion.

Wow, I don’t think I actually read that before I signed up.  For those that know me, deep introspection is not comfortable for me.  I’m getting better with it, as I get older, or maybe as I do it more, it gets easier.  Maybe, I’ve come to recognize that there’s something great on the other side.

One of the facilitators was Dewitt Jones.  I’ve heard him speak before and I like his outlook on life (”Celebrate what’s right with the world”).  I’ve also followed his column in Outdoor Photographer (”Basic Jones”).  It was amazing to spend the better part of four days with him.  He has a peace, a calmness, that is very inviting.  He also has a passion, not just for photography, but for many things.  It’s hard to avoid being inspired when you are around passionate people.  I think this is somethig I need to work on as well…being around passionate people.

His partner in this workshop, Tania Carriere, has a background in management consulting and life coaching.  She brings many practices with her, some of which really caught me off guard.  I found myself trying to avoid things like Tae Kwon Do and Tai Chi, but I decided to trust Tania and give it a try.  Again, something great on the other side.  Completely unexpected, it was wonderful.

At the workshop, we learned many things.  I could make a list of the specific things, but I think each of us got a little something different from each of them.

The biggest “a-ha” I had was around the Next Right Answer.  I went in with the idea that the Next Right Answer was a destination.  Really, it’s a journey.  For example, getting a college degree may be your next right answer.  But, there are many right answers along the way.  Applying to a school, registering for classes, studying, etc.  To get to the “Big” right answer, there are many smaller right answers along the way.  It’s also important to have some flexibility around your right answer.  For example, you may be two years into a degree in computer science when you learn that anthropology is really your passion.  You could beat yourself up about not picking the “right” right answer the first time.  But, you’re still heading for a degree, you have some of your education taken care of.  The things you learned will be a part of you, and you made a small course change early in your journey.  You could have waited until you recieved your degree in computer science then decided to give anthropology a try.  Big course change, late in the journey.

Another interesting thing happened, around the “course correction” conversation.  I didn’t see it until someone else was talking about it.  Many people view their life decisions as part of a “grand” plan, everything has to be figured out, planned, scheduled, and prepared for.  In the software development (or project planning) world, this would be called a waterfall model.  These are great tools, if none of your assumptions change.  Like software development, life has some unknowns.  You can’t plan for every contingency along the way.  In the software world, many are moving to a project management technique referred to as “agile.”  The most well know methodology here is Scrum (yes, as in rugby).  Here, you have your grand plan in mind, but you only plan and define your actions for a couple of weeks, or month (iteration).  At the end of the period you look at what you accomplished, reevaluate your goal and define your actions for the next iteration.

Much like the college example above and software development that I know so well.  Life is similar.  Often “grand plans” change, not that they were the wrong “grand plan”,  but other factors become known and adjustments need to be made.

Consider this next time you discover that your life didn’t turn out as you planned.  Look at what you’ve accomplished, reevaluate your plan, make adjustments, and start moving forward…towards your next right answer.

There were many other things I learned, or at least discovered, about myself.  Fortunately, I’m now using a journal to capture my thoughts and discoveries.  I can go back and review my thoughts from the workshop and reapply them as I go forward.

I had a great time and have started adding new practices into my life.  Plans for the future?  Yes, I have great plans…stay tuned as they unfold.

Aug 03 2009

DrobBox is the Bomb

DropBox Logo

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For a long time, I’ve been using thumb drives to sync files between machines.  Of course, not everyone has as many computers as I do.  But, for those of you with multiple computers DropBox is great.

Unlike some web-based services DropBox makes it very easy to get your files stored on their servers.  You install a small agent,  that sits in the system tray.  It creates a folder on your system, any files you put into this folder are syncronized to online storage.  And, this is done very quickly.  There are even little markers to tell you which files are current and which still need to be synchronized.  Keep in mind that you can interact with the files in your DropBox folder even when off-line.  The files will be updated when you get connected.

In addition to having copy of each file in your account, DropBox lets you recover deleted files and previous versions of a given file.  This is handy when, for example, you accedentally save changes you didn’t intend to.

They have three account levels, Basic (2GB), Pro 50 (50GB) and Pro 100 (100GB).  They are free, $99/yr, and $199/yr with clients for Windows, Mac and Linux.  Yes, you can use your DropBox to move files between platforms.

After you have your account setup, you can create shared folders.  Basically a folder you can use to hand-off files with others in your company, family, or group.  They don’t need to have a DropBox account.

I have found DropBox to be a great addition…even with only a free account.

Learn more at DropBox.

Jul 31 2009

Virgin Mobile going to Sprint

I find it interesting how big business can spend money when they’re reporting losses.  For example, Sprint just committed $483 million to puchase Virgin Mobile (who recently purchased Helio).

This at rougly the same time they are reporting loses of $384 million and dropped 257,000 subscribers.

How do you sit in front of the Board of Directors and say “Yes, I know we lost $384 million this quarter, and we lost 257,000 subscribers, but if I could just spend this $483 million we could have a bunch of pre-paid customers that also want to jump to a different carrier.”

Hmm, let’s see.  Maybe they should spend some money on creating a service that people like and want to stay with.  You could hire a lot of consultants for $483 million…

Apr 23 2009

Career Coaching…maybe…

I was checking my blogs yesterday and came across an article on LifeHacker that discussed getting a career coach and how a coach might help with a career change and/or job search.  I didn’t think much about it at the time, but later started to wonder if this might be a good direction for my Life Coaching practice to head.

It’s been difficult attracting customers to a generic Life Coaching business, and I’ve been told that a niche is a good way to go.  This seems like a niche that would be useful to a broad audience.  And, it today’s economy, more people than ever are out of work and looking at a potential career change.

What I’ve decided to to reach out to a few people that are doing a job search and explore the possibilities here.  Use my normal interviewing and coaching techniques and discover how they might need to be modified to better serve someone doing a career or job search.  Maybe a better way to think about this is that I’ll be collaborating with someone in the trenches to develop a working system.

Are you interested in some coaching?  Get in touch, let’s talk.

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